If you do a google search, you’d probably find a lot of people like me who talk about their narcisist mothers. It’s hard for me specially because I don’t want to be a mean person.
However, several events have led me to shut out my mother. And I am sad that if we don’t fix this rift, she might end up passing away before I could even talk to her.
I just don’t know how to talk to her and tell her that her actions have led to this moment. All my siblings do not talk to her. At least not in the way a mother and child should talk. Just the occasional hello.
But lately, it escalated. Her actions nearly broke up the whole clan. It almost caused the separation of my cousin and her husband. Caused pain to another cousin. And she refused to even apologize.
Through it all, she thinks she’s the victim.
Then comes the Facebook posts. Not everyone is stupid. It’s easy to see what she means when she makes cryptic posts.
She usually does this to get affirmation from her friends. Her friends who do not know the real story. She’ll even outright tag my siblings and I. We end up looking like ingrates.
Her latest post takes the cake. Her friends flock to her, some even implying the shortcomings if my siblings and I.
Of course, her friends started sympathizing with her. Some even agreed to focus on grandkids and spoil the instead.
Honestly, Mom. All you need to do is apologize.
But her pride is stopping her from doing it
Addicted :P 
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